Tuesday, May 10, 2005

Social life of this stay at home mom

seems to me I haven't had much of a social life since like high school..And that was long ago...I miss the interaction with friends and peers....I have lost contact with many of my high school friends..Isn't it funny how in school you say you will be friends forever..When in deed forever ends at graduation...I had a few of my friends in my wedding...Don't really talk to any of them anymore..Not for lack of me trying....I do have one real close friend...But she has never been dependable or reliable..Only when it is convenient for her....She is not married has no kids...But whatever......Another friend I talk with is a good friend from school...Although we had a long absence of talking...For some reason we didn't speak for like 10 years or so...But now we are back on track...But it isn't like we can go and have a girls night out...I am over 900 miles away..I have not made any friends here..I have just moved from the town I grew up in...Only about 7 months ago...My husband got a new job...Trying to better ourselves I guess...Makes nearly double than his old job..Which is nice....But it gets lonely not having a friend to drop by..Or a spot to go and hang when he gets home...Just to have girl talk..You never really realize how much you miss friends until you don't have any....Sure some women say their husbands are their best friends...My husband is my friend...But I don't dish with him...I sure as hell cant complain about him...To himself...Or talk about juicy things that may or may have not happen in the bedroom..:-)Sometimes I feel very isolated..Not just because of the move..Even before I moved I was feeling this way....I wonder if other moms have run into these kind problems....Yah no...To have a girlfriend to complain about the kids too...The husband..The job...Just life in general...Go out with..Dinners,movies,shopping.....Girl stuff...
My social life now constists of going to store alone to get the milk..Trips to the park..The pre-school..Occasional trip to the Dr....That about sums it up...My husband and I don't go out alone..My kids think that I do nothing....That a stay at home mom does not have a job..Maybe they are right..I have no friends...No social life....Boo-hoo....And a baby who likes to eat out of the dogs bowl...Guess it doesn't get any better than this.......

2 comments:

sandgirl said...

way to go chrisnit, youre getting the hang of it!

Bossy♥'s YOU said...

love ya baby