Wednesday, September 28, 2005

blah,blah, freaking blah!!

so yesterday my precious baby spawn turned from my bundle of love and cuddles , and turned into a demontic little brown eyed beauty that started talking back to me. just a short while ago I was in awe of her. There is something about her. She has this beauty and cuteness that melts me. I am sure the other 2 spawns were the same at this age, maybe I am just enjoying her more because I am in a good spot in life. I am not sure..And older and wiser and take time for the little things with her. With the other 2 I worked full time for a while. Sucked big time.

But today I caught her jumping on covert spy spawns bed. Before she noticed I was watching she had this glee in her eye. she was truly happy at that very moment of her short life. As soon as she caught wind of me watching this display, she took her finger (yes that finger again) and she waved it and pointed at me and said " no momma u go"...Now mind u this is the same little prescious finger that curled around my finger when she was a newborn, the same finger I would hold as she was learning to walk, the finger she touched her object with, the same finger she has noticed fits nicely in her nose, the same finger she pointed at me Monday as she was trying to save the house from burning to a ruble of fire and soot.

she kept pointing that finger at me and pointing me toward the door and telling me to go. How did this happen? Where have I went wrong? Do these kids not realize if they did not have me to make lunches, clean toilets, do dishes,fold laundry and make dinner for everyone that I would leave!!! Fact is..this house would not run without me. And I know this. If I were to die today...My kids would be sent to school and church (along with various other outings and controlled activites) with mis matched clothes and tangled hair. My hubby has no concept of what an outfit is. I purposes fold thier clothes in outfit segments. I fold the top and bottoms of any matching clothing article together . Just for this very situation!! These kids dont realize how good they have it here with me:)

Well I think hubby and I will be putting our home on the market in january or february. We are hoping for a move in late spring early suumer , so the kids can finish out school here. Not like anyone really comes to visit us anyway. So no biggy in that area.

HOUSE was good tonight...well I have seen better, but it was still good. NIP/TUCK was very good too. I know, I know, you dont see me as a fan of such a dirty and provocative show. It may as well be on your local porn station with all the sex and nudity on there. ( not that there is anything wrong with all that..in moderation of course..LOL). It is a dirty hidden secert ( like me haivng a southern belle hiding deep down). But I like shows that are, shall we say, risky, for lack of a better word. I was there when Roseanne had that female kiss, when Ellen came out, when Rosie came out, when "who ever" shot JR, when whatever happens on what ever show is on.
Not sure where I am going with this so I will just stop.

Have a happy Hump Day and since it worked for some of you yesterday, I am wishing for a day with no bills..as well as no junk mail...I will keep my fingers crossed on that for ya;)

Toodels

16 comments:

Melis said...

I stubbled upon your blog from a post you made at another... And OMG! I'm just rollin here! I, too, have 3 kids, but between ages 12.5 & 2, and my 2 yo has said the same thing to me as she furiously shook her lil precious finger at me! LOL Great job on your blog! Feel free to stop by mine anytime!

firehotgran said...

JUST LOVE MY EMMA BOO.....SHE IS SO FUNNY.I'D COME AND VISIT IF I HAD THE MONEY.......I MISS YOU GUYS SOOOOOOOO MUCH

Wethyb said...

I don't want want my baby girl to do that :( Waaahhh...lol.

Are you moving out of state or just around the city? Moving sucks!

Bossy♥'s YOU said...

Melis, thank you for stopping by..glad I am not the only one who gtes the finger from a 2 year old..LOL

granny, trut me..your not missing much..

beth, well my friend..it is gonna happen..trust me.LOL

we are moving south..not till spring though:)

d said...

Look on the brightside, at least it was that finger and not the "other one". Whenever I come across my son doing something he shouldn't be, he waves at me furiously, it's like he's saying "nothin going on here, go back to what you were doing"

Little buggers!

And husband's? Ha! They'd be lost, all of 'em! Whenever I leave the baby with mine for the day he forgets to feed him lunch, EVERY SINGLE TIME! I come home to him with mis-matched clothing with various stains on them (not lunch stains, junk food stains). Even last night when I came in from school he was just putting the baby to bed in a dirty ketchup stained shirt that he'd been wearing ALL day! Lazy, lazy, lazy.

mom of 3 girls said...

LOL at Emma!! she is such a cute little girl......I hope that things go well with selling your house and you guys find where and what you want.....

momma of 2 said...

I love it! Today I am home with two sick ones... so I'll be back with a real comment later - I hope you like the south - at least you won't have the winters to deal with!

vani said...

my little one is now doing the finger thing to her older sister everytime she bosses her around..just makes you wonder, if she could talk, what would she say to go along with the finger?? lol...good luck with the whole moving thing! :)

Bossy♥'s YOU said...

d, yes i am worrried that finger will be flying next..LOL..wait till u see nip/tuck friday..it was pretty good..i think i know who the slasher is:)

jacks,yes she is a cute little bugger..that is why i contuine letting her live here rent free:)

momma, sorry the kidos are ill..that sucks...i am wishing them a speedy recovery:)

Vani, isnt it funny watching them be all grown up and do finger pointing and whatnot..lol

d said...

Oooooh! Who do you think it is? I think it's a girl.

Bossy♥'s YOU said...

no i think it is the dr. that they took in as a partner...scandolous:)

what girl do u think it is????

d said...

Ooooohhhh. Could be, could be. That would be good. I don't have a particular girl in mind but I think it will turn out to be a girl for some reason. Last season I thought it was a different person every episode. For a while I was convinced it was that transexual's wacked out son.

Bossy♥'s YOU said...

yes but he is dead now...LOL..

the reason i say this is becuase last night there was a scene where christian finds a knife with his things or smoething..i wont tell u anything else..but that doesnt give too much away..LOL

in due time we shall see huh!!..heehee

Marel Lecone said...

The kid and her finger--she's telling you, I guess. :) I'm sick of being bossed around too by these little ones. :) Take care.

Tee said...

Awh, so hard when they change right before your eyes :P ... I know what you mean about seeing the youngest differently. I think we're just older and more organized (ha! in the sense that we know what we're doing), so we have more time to really appreciate the younger one. (Also, for me it's heart breaking because I know he's my last child. I'm not having anymore.)

Good post.

Tee said...

PS - I agree - House wasn't the greatest last night... And apparently they're taking a break for a few weeks. Hopefully they'll come up with something great.